3 Toxic Statements to Stop Saying to Our Women

Hey loves! Today we are talking about a few toxic statements that men say to and about women. Let’s get right into it. You’re too emotional. Women hate this. Like, H-A-T-E this. Saying a woman is too emotional makes her feel like her emotions and thoughts  don’t matter or like you are trying to diminish…

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3 Toxic Statements to Stop Saying to Our Men

Hey loves! Today we are talking aboit a few toxic statements that women say to and about men. Let’s get right into it. You’re not a real man unless you… Women are quick to base a man’s manhood on some kind of conditional statement. You’re not a real man unless you make XX amount of…

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Episode 1: “Nicki Minaj – Gospel Artist?”

Hey loves! I’m baaacckkkk!!! It’s Videllia here and I’m super excited to FINALLY begin my podcast channel! I’m hoping that by introducing a podcast format for some of my blogs, it will provide you all with a different communication medium in which to listen and interact with me.  And if you like it and want…

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You Were Created for…NOW!

“And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this.” ~Esther 4:14 YOU WERE CREATED FOR NOW! – Recently, I was asked by a fellow entrepreneur what value do I feel that I am adding as an entrepreneur. I paused. Reflected.  Then I told her the truth.…

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It Ain’t Over…

Because someone else needs to hear this too… 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 says, “we are afflicted in every way but not crushed; perplexed but not driven to despair; persecuted but not forsaken; struck down but not destroyed.” I’m meditating on this scripture tonight because life has just been throwing me lots of curve balls. I find…

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Dating…Not So Fast

In April 2016, I decided to take a no-dating fast since my friends were all concerned about my love life, or rather, lack thereof. “You just don’t seem as excited about love anymore.” “We’re concerned that you’ve gotten too comfortable being single. Don’t you still want to get married one day?” While my friends meant…

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