I often tell you all what to do and what not to do so that you are making healthy relationship choices for your life but what happens when you’ve made some not so great choices and can’t let go of those past mistakes? The answer is simple and I share it in today’s video!
This week we are talking about ghosting. There are very limited circumstances where I think ghosting is okay but for the most part, I believe that you should just be open and honest with people, especially if you’re an adult.
In today’s video we discuss why ghosting is NOT okay and is a COWARDLY move as well as some tips to move forward if you’ve been ghosted before.
“I know he’s abusive but he fine tho…”
This is a prime example of how a preference has outweighed a dealbreaker. In today’s video we are talking all about preferences and dealbreakers in hope that you make better relationship choices for your life.
Hey loves! Today I share a few thoughts on what the difference is between talking, hooking up and dating. Check out the video and drop your thoughts below.
Hey loves! Today we are talking about a few toxic statements that men say to and about women. Let’s get right into it.
You’re too emotional.
Women hate this. Like, H-A-T-E this. Saying a woman is too emotional makes her feel like her emotions and thoughts don’t matter or like you are trying to diminish her feelings. Don’t be so quick to write her or her feelings off. Even if you don’t agree with her emotions, try hearing her out and seek to understand how she feels.
If you love me, you will…
Stop using love to manipulate women into doing things you want them to do. Yes, love requires sacrifice and compromise (in a healthy relationship) but trying to convince a woman to do things she doesn’t want to do in the name of love is not only toxic but it’s manipulative, selfish and controlling. If you find that you all don’t share the same values, then move on and find someone who does. However, do not try to manipulate her into getting your way by appealing to her heart strings. This ain’t Burger King so you don’t always get to have it your way.
All women are the same.
Fellas be careful not to classify all women into one category. Just like you don’t want to be lumped into one category, neither do our women. Stop assuming they are like your ex or the last woman that hurt you. More importantly, if you really believe all women are the same, why do you keep dating them?