About Me

Hey there Love!

“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.” -Dr. Steven Maraboli

That statement is by far one of my favorite quotes.  Why?  Because it demonstrates how we ought to view ourselves.  Perfectly Imperfect. Flawed and Unashamed. (Song of Sol 4:7)

My name is Videllia and I am the founder and creator of this lifestyle blog.  I’m so excited you decided to check out my website where I challenge women to be whole in themselves, comfortable in their perfect imperfections and unashamed of being who they were created to be.  This whole site is designed to motivate and empower YOU! Yes, YOU.

I am a FLAWED Christian woman and guess what? I am NOT perfect by any means. However, I am imperfectly ME. I am an imperfect Christian who has questioned her self-worth and has been ashamed of her flaws. However, I am now living life out loud – bold and confident in the QUEEN God created me to be! And I want you to do the same!

I have only one goal – to inspire and influence  women to walk into their own Queendom– bold and confident in their worth – while sprinkling some faith, style and flare along the way! That’s what you can expect from this website. I want you to reach your highest potential and be the best version of YOU that you can be.  Through faith, inspiration, dating and relationships, career, fashion, and life in-style, this site will  challenge and encourage you to see your true beauty and worth from within. It will ultimately transform your way of thinking and how you view yourself so that you too can become the Queen you were always destined to be!



Videllia is a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) by day and is a blogger/writer and aspiring author.  She is very passionate about empowering women to be Queens.  Ultimately, she wants to help transform the perspectives of how women view themselves so that they can walk this catwalk called “Life” with their heads held high and a fierce upmh in their step!  She wants all women to know their worth, be confident of their worth and never ashamed of their faith, flaws or fashion!

While not meeting the demands of her corporate clients, Videllia enjoys writing/blogging, traveling, working out, reading, fashion, dancing, and spending time with her family/friends.  She’s also a huge advocate of giving back to her community and often participates in several community service initiatives every year and uses her birthday every year to receive donation supplies for a local charity in lieu of gifts.  Her motto – “for every year that God blesses me with life, I ought to be a blessing to others!”  She hopes that this site will bless you too!

For booking inquiries, please email at only1v.inspire@gmail.com.

This is her official website.  Her work has been published in the Fort Worth Star Telegram Newspaper and on the following sites:

  • qwcdevos.com
  • fempotential.com
  • anewmedre.com

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  • Twitter/Instagram: only1lady_v
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