About Me

20191120_163909.jpgSingle? Dating? In a relationship? My mission is to teach you how to navigate the space from singleness to relationships and all the craziness that happens in between!

About Me

My name is Videllia (named after my late great-grandmother) and I go by Lady V. I am a relationship coach and women’s empowerment speaker. I am a flawed and imperfect Texas gal who wears glasses more than her contacts, loves Jesus and who changes her hair often haha. But one thing I love most is talking about all things relationships and self-worth.

Specifically, my real passion is teaching women and men how to navigate the journey from singleness to to relationships and all the craziness that happens in between as the Queens and Kings God created them to be.

After experiencing the worst of relationships, abuse, narcissism, a failed engagement AND heartbreak, I went on a journey of healing and self-discovery. That journey has brought me here and I love talking about all things relationships! Specifically, I focus on empowering people in their singleness to know their worth and to use that self-worth to confidently make better relationship decisions for their lives. Through videos, motivational content and inspiring merchandise, I teach people to always recognize their royalty and to never settle for anything less than God’s best! You are a Queen and you deserve a King! But recognize that you are a Queen even without a King! And the same is true for my Kings!

I’m so excited you decided to check out my website and I welcome you to my Queendom – a place where we never settle for less than God’s best for our lives.

My hope is that this site will serve as a one stop shop for all of your relationship needs. Feel free to explore my site or book a free coaching consultation call so that I can better help serve YOU!

I also encourage you to follow me on Instagram/Youtube (@only1lady_v) or Facebook (@only1ladyv) to learn more! Stay blessed!

XoXo ~Videllia


Videllia is a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) by day and is a blogger/writer and aspiring author. She is very passionate about empowering women to be Queens. Ultimately, she wants to help transform the perspectives of how women view themselves so that they can walk this catwalk called “Life” with their heads held high and a fierce upmh in their step! She wants all women to know their worth, be confident of their worth and never ashamed of their faith, flaws or fashion!

While not meeting the demands of her corporate clients, Videllia enjoys writing/blogging, traveling, working out, reading, fashion, dancing, and spending time with her family/friends. She’s also a huge advocate of giving back to her community and often participates in several community service initiatives every year and uses her birthday every year to receive donation supplies for a local charity in lieu of gifts. Her motto – “for every year that God blesses me with life, I ought to be a blessing to others!” She hopes that this site will bless you too!

For booking inquiries, please email at only1v.inspire@gmail.com.

This is her official website. Her work has been published in the Fort Worth Star Telegram Newspaper and on the following sites:

  • qwcdevos.com
  • fempotential.com
  • anewmedre.com
  • pretty entrepreneur.com