Day 16: You Deserve More

“Stop losing sleep over someone who isn’t losing sleep over you!” ~Videllia Davis

And in case you didn’t get it, I’ll repeat it. Stop losing sleep over someone who isn’t losing sleep over you! You deserve more so save those tears.

I shared that quote on December 30, 2016 to my Instagram page. I was sitting at home reflecting on 2016 with all of its successes, triumphs, mistakes and tribulations. One mistake was that I had exerted too much energy on a man who seemingly showed no interest in me. He’d hit me up occasionally and claim interest but it never went beyond that. I’m sure my friends were tired of me mentioning his name. One of my friends even went so far as to say, “V” we don’t even need to mention his name anymore because he’s no longer relevant (lol that girl is hilarious!).

But she was right! When you know your worth for yourself and are confident in the value that you bring to the table, you will stop settling for someone who can’t see the wonderfully amazing person that you are. You deserve so much better than inconsistency and him/her treating you like you don’t exist OR that your feelings don’t matter. In fact, you deserve more and that “more” is waiting for you just around the corner!


#KnowYourWorthChallenge: People often say that they feel so good after they have cried their heart out. The reason being is because when we cry our bodies release endorphins – our bodies own natural pain killers – thus making us feel better and helping alleviate the pain we feel. Well I want to help you find another way to cope with your pain. Another way we can release endorphins is through exercise or physical activity. In today’s challenge, I encourage you to put down that tissue and do something physical. Whether it’s a jog, walk, dance class, etc., know that you can AND will overcome this pain inside.

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